When Worlds Collide

They say ” Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars” is it really that simple? I’d like to think we may be from worlds outside of this simple equation and propose a deeper thought.

If our actions dictate where we are from then tell me why do some men drive down the road with their blinker on for 18 miles and another never uses his. Or why can one woman, climb an ascent of 10,000 feet and another be so overweight she can’t move off the couch? I prefer to think that we are all from a different realm of course but I don’t think that we are aligned in Human form. I believe that we may be aligned in a world of energies.

For many, the energy they hold captive is either put to the test or is awaiting some sort of action to burst it open. I’ve heard of magical moments where a 100lb woman lifts a car off a teenage boy that is crushed, or the miracle of a paraplegic standing from his chair and deciding he’s going to walk. These things happen and they happen more often than we realize. However; in order to really enjoy the fact that there are some who do and some who don’t, we have to look at something more simple to understand.

As I write this, the current state of the world is dealing with LGBT issues, Pandemic issues, Political issues, and many are just unsure where to fit in.

I want to be clear, I am heterosexual, I don’t fear the pandemia of Covid-19; however, I do take precautions. I follow my own political agenda and choose who I think is best suited for a position and I don’t question others on who they think is best. I believe we all have the right to be whomever we want, choose whatever we want and I encourage growth within those choices.

The other day, I was talking with a close friend about relationships and why some work, some don’t, and some continue to work but stay in a smoke filled relationship of abuse, betrayal, or even to just have a sense of belonging.

I choose to follow my heart. This has always served me well. This doesn’t mean that relationships work for me everytime. In fact, more often than not, they don’t work out. Relationships take two individuals on the same plane and the same level of commitment, values, intimacy, compassion, and trust. These are only a few of human love traits that will keep a relationship strong.

In another world; why is it, that a relationship with a partner of all these same traits of the items listed above not work out? I believe it is because they are meant to be an energetic relationship rather than a relationship of human love.

We’ve all been there. We find “The Perfect One” we want it, we want to be with them, and for some reason, the chemistry of a physical relationship may not be there or there is no desire to be with that person in an intimate relationship. It doesn’t have to be that there isn’t a connection. In fact, it is a great connection of energy that draws people together and we should never let that be jeapordized.

I find this the same in same sex relationships. It’s not for anyone but ourselves to decide our sexual orientation, preference or how we identify. Genetics will definitely identify your sex, but it’s okay to feel like you are part of a different gender. Only you get to determine who you are. You define your existence nobody else can do that.

When you feel like you have found a match take time to process and focus on what relationship course you want to be in. When you struggle with anything that may be outside of the norm. Take time to evaluate and access the situation. Make good solid choices. We all come from different worlds and we are not limited to just Venus and Mars. Although some of you may be from Jupiter.

I swear to God the lady on I-25 who stayed in the fast lane doing 45 and wearing her mask was definitely someone who was in her own world. I loved her go around asshole. This is my lane and I own it attitude.

I look forward to meeting many more people from a different world and where they are Lokal to. Until then I’m stuck on earth finding my own path and journey of which I determine.

Published by NOTALOKAL

Retired Military (Airforce). I grew up in Salt Lake City Utah amongst a Mormon religion that made me always question my relationship with God and how I fit in. I didn't enjoy going to church and I chose to join the military in hopes of escaping the grasps of onlookers, hypocrites, and jackmormons, looking at my every move in order to see how I would be as I grew up. I'd show them nobody tells me what to do...so look at me. I joined an organization that does nothing but tell me what to how to sleep when to sleep what to eat where to wash my backside how many cars I can own how often I get to shit every day. Nobody tells me what to do. I'll move and find myself exactly where I wanna be. San Antonio Basic Training here I come

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